Kinks List (NSFW)

[thirtyaughtsix]

Irving has a very active sex life for two reasons--one, because sex is a useful means of winning over women he needs something from, and two, because he really enjoys it. He's a very experienced and attentive partner, wanting even in his more recreational ventures to ensure the satisfaction of both himself and the woman he's with. It just isn't as fun when it has to be forced.


Here are some quick facts about Irving's preferences:

• Irving is heterosexual. He'll gladly flirt with men a bit for fun and profit, but he isn't attracted to them sexually.
• Irving has submissive tendencies. He doesn't mind topping, but he likes women that are willing to take charge.
• Irving will try just about anything once. He's pretty adventurous and, while not keen on anything that puts him in a considerable amount of pain, he likes to keep broadening his horizons.
• Irving is very vocal. Unless he has a good reason to keep quiet, he tends to talk quite a bit and let his partner know exactly how he's feeling. It's partly a habit born from having to reassure less experienced women and partly a way he likes to express himself.
• Irving separates sex from love. He's generally very blatant about this if asked: he's not looking for a romantic relationship, nor does he feel any obligation to begin one just because the sex was great. Which is not to say that romantic feelings couldn't enter into the picture--they would just have to catch him off guard.

Here is my kinks list for him:

Yes:

Power imbalance/light to moderate dominance and submission dynamics
Flirting and banter
Restraints
Sexual roleplay (with different costumes/identities)
Stripping
Extensive foreplay (touching, cuddling, etc.)
Handjobs
Sex in unusual or dangerous places
Quick and impulsive sex
Rough and/or angry sex
Emotional vulnerability/comfort sex
Orgasm denial/teasing
Sleeping with an enemy or opponent

No:

Physical torture/mutilation (leaving temporary marks is okay, making someone bleed all over is not)
Oral sex
Anal sex
Messy bodily fluids/bathroom stuff/vomit
Pregnancy
Bestiality
Sex with underaged characters
Threesomes/multiple partners